There is a well-known parable in the name of Rabbi Chayim of Zans: A man was lost for several days in the forest and didn't know which path to take. He finally sees another man approaching. He is filled with joy and excitement because now he finally thinks he will be able to find the way out. So he asks, "Brother, show me the way out, which is the right way?" And the man replies, "Brother, I too am lost. I can only tell you this, do not take the paths I have taken, they have only led me astray. Now let us look for a new way together."
The month of Elul is a time to reflect on how far deep into the forest we find ourselves. Are we walking alone--getting lost in our own thoughts and realities? Do we allow ourselves the gift of admitting we are lost? Are we blind to others who might be extending their hand to help us find our way. Likewise, maybe someone is waiting for us to offer a way out from the loneliness of wandering. Are we offering our hand in friendship and trust?
Elul is a time to reflect on how deep into the forest we are. It is a time to reflect on moments when we have felt lost during the year but also to remember and acknowledge those who have extended their hands and helped us find our way.
Elul 16 is a day of gratitude for good friends who walk with us no matter what and who love us just the way we are!
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